I had wanted to rant on the psychology of the "sista"
and how we can all learn from the "sista"
confidence of the "sista" does not seem to come from achievement or performance
no... the "sista"does not seem to be scaling things on the same scale
the "sista" speaks with confidence as if they know that what they have to say is both interesting and important
the "sista" acts like she is the deal no matter what her gifts or shortcomings may be
it is amazing
there is a wonder to this sort of self confidence
we could all learn something from the psychology of the "sista"
to love thy self and to expect others to love us back
the other day on the ride I had a thousand words on the issue
now those words are all gone
but it is still something to consider