and she said... the boys are adults and they will decide...

long before the boys were adults their mother would say, "the boys are adults... they will choose..."

I did not subscribe to this logic

not before they were actual adults

then as adults... I feel that "children" can still use their parental guidance 

which is funny... my dad never gave me a second of useful advice in his life


well...

the boys are adults

they will choose