Lisa was a wonderful mom...
Lisa's parents were very kind and generous grandparents\inlaws
in addition to the visits to Pittsburgh and Florida
the grandparents hosted us on several family vacations in New Mexico
there was one vacation to Santa Fe where Lisa was displaying that she was at the marriage's end
not trying to get into it
but it was unpleasant
very unpleasant
illogical... insane... unpleasant... and unfair
one afternoon Lisa and I took the boys skeet shooting
while walking up the hill to the shooting range I informed the boys
"if your mother shoots me... I just want you to know... it was not a accident"
well... she did not shoot me
but I am most certain she thought about it
marriage is filled with good days and bad weeks