it happens...
I am on Facebook
somebody post something
I feel a need to respond
WHY!
I wasted all sorts of time and energy during the first Trump Presidency arguing with Trump Supporters
not gonna fall for that again
then also...
on the discussions about men I am also often triggered
like the "Man vs. Bear" discussion
so often I find that there are posts made about men
that if that same post was made about woman
it would be unacceptable
like that whole Me Too Movement
that Believe Woman Ideal
now...
I do not want to sound like the person who says All Lives Matter when someone says Black Lives Matter
they are as annoying as the people who yell at a person if they mistakenly used a pronoun that denotes gender when the should have said "they or them"
but...
just as men can say anti woman statements
it is not uncommon for women to say anti men statements
misandry
the other day there was a post by a friend
she posted about having stories about scary men
I responded... I have some stories about scary woman
and well
it did not go well
I get it... I should keep my mouth shut
I am not sure why I can not contain myself
but I do get triggered
I will try to be less responsive
ignore the conversation
avoid the conversation
accept the conversation
let it be
I will try